- Competitors see the differences in people. Includers see what’s in common.
- Competitors judge others for their mistakes. Includers don’t hold people’s mistakes against them.
- Competitors create cliques. Includers break down cliques.
- Competitors are only concerned with winning. Includers know that winning only happens when no one’s excluded.
Key Phrase: Cliques may be the way high school rolls, but it can’t be the way church operates.